把握当下!

非常好的一篇文章, 我们真的就是这样的想法, 至少很多我们的长辈应该都是这样的想法. 永远都是把钱存起来, 等到老的时候再花, 问题是我们能有这么长的命来花吗?

把握当下!

『等到我学业完成以后，我定要好好地放松自己。』
『等到我生意上了轨道以后，我定要出国旅行，到处游玩，开开眼界。』
『等到我赚了钱以后，我定要好好地孝敬父母，让他们过上好日子。』
『等到我买了房子以后，我就会停下忙碌的脚步，好好享受人生。』
『等到我孩子结了婚以后，我就可以安心打牌，毋需再顾虑那么多。』
等到‥‥‥等到‥‥‥我们总是这样对自己说，
也总是这样把享受人生寄托在遥不可知的未来。
似乎我们所有的生命，都消耗在等待上。

曾有这么两个年青人，一位是中国人，另一位是美国人。
他们同在某个大城市的一家公司上班，职位相同，薪金相同，
然而所过的生活却迵然不同。
那位美国人在他上班一年后，
用所赚的薪金分期付款买了一套非常漂亮、
舒适的房子，日子过得称心如意；
而另外那位中国人，却是租住在一栋非常破旧的公寓里，
房子又黑又小又旧，彷佛稍微用力一点，整个房子就会倒塌似的。
那位中国人省吃俭用，他告诉自己，
等到赚够了钱，就一定要买栋漂亮的房子，
让自己住得舒服一点。
二十年后，他终于如愿以尝，
在那位美国人所住的公寓里买了一套与他一样漂亮的房子，与美国人毗邻而居。
结果不幸的是，那位中国人住进新房子还不到一年，
就因多年来营养不良、积劳成疾而撒手西归。
这就是中国人的悲哀，也是东方人与西方人最大的区别。
中国人顾虑太多，总是把生命用在等待上；
而西方人却是秉持"把握现在，及时行乐"的人生态度。
如果那位中国人也像那位美国同事一样，
用分期付款的方法买一套房子，
那他不也是一样可以在二十年前就让自己过得舒服一点了吗？
人人都愿意牺牲现在，去换取不可知的等待；
牺牲今生的辛苦钱，去换取来世的安逸。
其实我们毋须等到生活完美无瑕，也毋须等到一切稳定下来，
想做什么，现在就可以开始。
每个人的生命都有尽头，许多人往往在生命即将结束时，
才发现自己还有很多事没有做，这实在是一种遗憾。
人生是一张单程车票，失去的便永远不会再拥有。
千万别把美好的生命浪费在等待上，把握现在，享受现在，才是最重要的。

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We never get what we want

We never get what we want,

We never want what we get,

We never have what we like,

We never like what we have.

And still we live & love.

That’s life...

The best kind of friends,

Is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with,

Never say a word,

And then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

Its true that we don’t know

What we’ve got until it’s gone,

But it’s also true that we don’t know

What we’ve been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back!

Don’t expect love in return;

Just wait for it to grow in their heart,

But if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours.

It takes only a minute to get crush on someone,

An hour to like someone,

And a day to love someone,

But it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don’t go for looks; they can deceive.

Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away.

Go for someone who makes you smile,

Because it takes only a smile to

Make a dark day seems bright.

Find the one that makes your heart smiles!

May you have

Enough happiness to make you sweet,

Enough trials to make you strong,

Enough sorrow to keep you human,

And enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in others’ shoes.

If you feel that it hurts you,

It probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people

Don’t necessarily have the best of everything;

They just make the most everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for

Those who cry,

Those who hurt,

Those who have searched,

And those who have tried,

For only they can appreciate the importance of people

Who have touched their lives.

When you were born, you were crying

And everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so that when you die,

You’re the one who is smiling

And everyone around is crying.

[source: Fun Funky]

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体会情况不同, 幸福就在, 靠自己

体会情况不同, 幸福就在, 靠自己. 还蛮赞的几篇寓言

体会情况不同

一只小猪、一只绵羊和一头乳牛，被關在同一个畜栏里。

有一次，牧人捉住小猪，牠大声号叫，猛烈地抗拒。

绵羊和乳牛讨厌牠的号叫，便说：「他常常捉我们，我们并不大呼小叫。」

小猪听了回答道：「捉你们和捉我完全是两回事，他捉你们，

只是要你们的毛和乳汁，但是捉住我，却是要我的命呢！」

立场不同、所处环境不同的人，很难了解对方的感受；

因此对别人的失意、挫折、伤痛，不宜幸灾乐祸，

而应要有关怀、了解的心情。

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幸福就在…

草原上有对狮子母子，小狮子问母狮子：「妈，幸福在哪里？」

母狮子说：「幸福就在你的尾巴上ㄚ…」

于是，小狮子不断追着尾巴跑…但始终咬不到。

母狮子笑道：「傻瓜！幸福不是这样得到的。

只要你昂首向前走，幸福就会一直跟随着你！」

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靠自己

小蜗牛问妈妈：为什么我们从生下来，就要背负这个又硬又重的壳呢？

妈妈：因为我们的身体没有骨骼的支撑，只能爬，又爬不快。

所以要这个壳的保护！

小蜗牛：毛虫姊姊没有骨头，也爬不快，为什么她却不用背这个又硬又重

的壳呢？

妈妈：因为毛虫姊姊能变成蝴蝶，天空会保护她啊。

小蜗牛：可是蚯蚓弟弟也没骨头爬不快，也不会变成蝴蝶他什么不背这个

又硬又重的壳呢？

妈妈：因为蚯蚓弟弟会钻土，大地会保护他啊。

小蜗牛哭了起来：我们好可怜，天空不保护，大地也不保护。

蜗牛妈妈安慰他：「所以我们有壳啊！我们不靠天，也不靠地，

我们靠自己。」

1.抛开所有的不重要的数字，包括年龄，体重，身高。

2.与快乐的人为友，心怀不满的人会让你消沉

3.坚持不懈地学习

4.从小事中找到乐趣

5.开怀大笑，笑到不能自已

6.想哭就哭

7..让你爱的人和事环绕着你

8.珍爱你的健康

9.不要踏上罪恶之路

10.告诉你爱的人 "我爱你 "，珍惜每一个机会

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Arrangement of Meeting

Boss said to Secretary: For a week we will go abroad, so make arrangement.

Secretary makes call to Husband: For a week my boss and I will be going abroad, you look after yourself.

Husband makes call to secret lover: My wife is going abroad for a week, so lets spend the week together.

Secret lover makes call to small boy whom she is giving private tution: I have work for a week, so you need not come for class.

Small boy makes call to his grandfather: Grandpa, for a week I don't have class 'coz my teacher is busy. Lets spend the week together.

Grandpa (the 1st boss) makes call to his secretary: This week I am spending my time with my grandson. We cannot attend that meeting.

Secretary makes call to her husband: This week my boss has some work, we cancelled our trip.

Husband makes call to secret lover: We cannot spend this week together, my wif e has cancelled her trip.

Secret lover makes call to small boy whom she is giving private tution: This week we will have class as usual.

Small boy makes call to his grandfather: Grandpa, my teacher said this week I have to attend class. Sorry I can't give you company.

Grandpa makes call to his secretary: Don't worry this week we will attend that meeting, so make arrangement.
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美丽的遗憾

看过一个访问节目， 主持人访问是一位香港的女总裁

她拥有权力、金钱、地位。。。

如果是外人当然非常羡慕她！ 坦白说我也很希望能像她那么本领

不过别以为这样风光的背后就没有心血事哦

她。。。 的遗憾是没有时间陪伴自己的父母

很欣赏她说的这句话：“爱情没有了，你伤心多久？一年半载？给够你一年半！再不然就开始另一段恋情来填补！ 爱人外遇，你恨多久？ 爱人跑了！你悲伤多久？ 两年好吗？ 伴侣离世，你哀伤多久？痛多久？ 给你五年好吗？ 这些你都可以寻找更新、代替。。。”

“唯一不能代替取代更新的就是自己的父母！ 父母一旦离开了～ 我们的心永远都有一种遗憾，责怪自己没有好好的对待他们！”

她拥有很多可是却在父母在世的时候没有好好的陪伴在身边。。 这些就是她无法填补的遗憾

我们会有很多遗憾，但是不一定全是最坏的！

每天去工作放工回家的路程都会经过坟墓区。。。

自己每天都在想---- 躺在里头的人其实并不是最痛苦！

反而生存着的我们才是苦～

因为躺着的人没有了包袱，反而是我们却带着遗憾

表哥十四岁就离开了，我对他的遗憾和挂念是---- 为何看不到你最后一脸，奈何我们不能一起长大。。 你最后一次生日我送的礼物、你爱的叮当、你送的生日bear bear全是我最珍贵的东西！ 收藏叮当是我对你的怀念

外公外婆离开---- 我对他们并没有太多回忆，因为语言上的不通～ 但我知道他们很疼孙。。 对他们的遗憾是未能孝顺他们。。 他们离开的时候我还在年高中和大学

太公离开---- 对他我的记忆更少，遗憾的是我才刚工作他就离开了～ 我还未来得及孝顺他

孝顺不是说用钱来买开心，但至少我想用我的钱来买东西给他们。。 只是我还没有哪个机会

所以我很珍惜我身边出现的每个人，因为我们不知道下一秒会变成怎样～

就算他/她曾经出卖、伤害、疼我、关心、还是做了很多让我伤心的事情

我依然还是谢谢他们的出现！ 毕竟世界那么大我们能遇上也是一种缘分

也许别人会说我笨、笑我傻。。。 但换个角度看你会看到不一样的东西

如果没有他们的出现，我的人生怎么会改写呢？ 我不会变得如此大量不计较

我不会看到远方。。。 因为他们的伤害让我更坚强、不执着

《爱情的伤害让我更明白自己需要什么，友情的出卖让我更懂得看明人心》

莎莎希望明天过后新的一年大家都顺心顺利

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Thanks for your time

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the pa st and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, 'Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday..' Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.

'Jack, did you hear me?'

'Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,' Jack said.

'Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it,' Mom told him.

'I loved that old house he lived in,' Jack said.

'You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life,' she said.

'He's the one who taught me carpentry,' he said. 'I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral,' Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.

Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time. The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.

'What's wrong, Jack?' his Mom asked.

'The box is gone,' he said

'What box?' Mom asked.

'There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,' Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

'Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him,' Jack said. 'I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.'

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. 'Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days,' the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the

package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. 'Mr. Harold Belser' it read.

Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope.

Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside. 'Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life.' A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.

Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.

Inside he found these words engraved:

'Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold

Belser.'

'The thing he valued most was...my time'

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days.

'Why?' Janet, his assistant asked.

'I need some time to spend with my son,' he said.

'Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!'

'Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,'

Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be

living.

7. You are special and unique.

8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

12. A lways remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

13 . Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy .

14. If you have a great friend, take the

time to let them know that they are great.

Send this letter to all the people you care about, if you do so, you will certainly brighten someone's day and might change their perspective on life...for the better.

To everyone I sent this to

'Thanks for your time

Anita Chan.

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从遗憾中领略圆满

我们常常安慰别人说：“人生是没有圆满的。”

你不能得到一切。你永远不会是最幸福的人。然而，谁说人生是没有圆满的呢？我们所拥有的，是另一种圆满。

我们从遗憾中领略圆满。

没有分离的思念，怎能领略相聚的幸福？

没有经历过被出卖的痛苦，怎会领略忠诚的可贵？

没有尝过苦恋的滋味，又怎会体会长相厮守的深情？

在纷纷扰扰的人世间，能够相聚，彼此忠诚，长相厮守，不正是一种圆满吗？

圆满的人生，不是拥有一切，而是学会了珍惜和付出。

在一个小宇宙里，你是圆满的。

当你不再贪婪，你是圆满的。

当你了解爱情，那是自身的圆满。

月圆月缺，但是，你不会说月亮是不圆满的。

你爱的那个人，也许是不完美的，也许是有很多缺点的。你自己又何尝不是？然而，你们的关系却可以是圆满的。

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What You Do TO Others, Will Be Done To You

What You Do TO Others

Will Be Done To You

A NICE STORY !!!

Once upon a time in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law.

In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.

Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law' s habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.

Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that,
according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.

Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law' s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it. Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.

Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.

Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. "Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Li-Li was so happy.

She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.

She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.

After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset.

She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.

The mother-in-law' s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.

Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening.

One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said, "Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep off the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."

Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."

HAVE YOU REALIZED that:

how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you?

There is a wise Chinese saying:

"The person who loves others will also be loved in return.

" God might be trying to work in another person's life through you.

You may send this to your friends and if you wish spread the POWER OF LOVE.

After all you have got nothing to lose but a lot to gain.

"A candle loses nothing if it is used to light another one .

By Steven He

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盲人和他的导盲犬, 谁上天堂

给你一个故事，希望你能喜欢这个故事并希望它能为你带来好运。

一天,一个盲人带着他的导盲犬过街时,一辆大卡车失去控制,直冲过来,盲人当场被撞死,他的导盲犬为了守卫主人,也一起惨死在车轮底下。

主人和狗一起到了天堂门前。

一个天使拦住他俩,为难地说:“对不起,现在天堂只剩下一个名额,你们两个中必须有一个去地狱。”

主人一听,连忙问:“我的狗又不知道什么是天堂,什么是地狱,能不能让我来决定谁去天堂呢？”

天使鄙视地看了这个主人一样,皱起了眉头,她想了想,说:“很抱歉,先生,每一个灵魂都是平等的,你们要通过比赛决定由谁上天堂。”

主人失望地问:“哦,什么比赛呢？”

天使说:“这个比赛很简单,就是赛跑,从这里跑到天堂的大门,谁先到达目的地,谁就可以上天堂。不过,你也别担心,因为你已经死了,所以不再是瞎子,而且灵魂的速度跟肉体无关,越单纯善良的人速度越快。”

主人想了想,同意了。

天使让主人和狗准备好,就宣布赛跑开始。她满心以为主人为了进天堂,会拼命往前奔,谁知道主人一点也不忙,慢吞吞地往前走着。更令天使吃惊的是,那条导盲犬也没有奔跑,它配合着主人的步调在旁边慢慢跟着,一步都不肯离开主人。天使恍然大悟:原来,多年来这条导盲犬已经养成了习惯,永远跟着主人行动,在主人的前方守护着他。可恶的主人,正是利用了这一点,才胸有成竹,稳操胜券,他只要在天堂门口叫他的狗停下就可以了。

天使看着这条忠心耿耿的狗,心里很难过,她大声对狗说:“你已经为主人献出了生命,现在,你这个主人不再是瞎子,你也不用领着他走路了,你快跑进天堂吧!”

可是,无论是主人还是他的狗,都像是没有听到天使的话一样,仍然慢吞吞地地往前走,好像在街上散步似的。

果然,离终点还有几步的时候,主人发出一声口令,狗听话地坐下了,天使用鄙视的眼神看着主人。

这时,主人笑了,他扭过头对天使说:“我终于把我的狗送到天堂了,我最担心的就是它根本不想上天堂,只想跟我在一起……所以我才想帮它决定,请你照顾好它。”

天使愣住了。

主人留恋地看着自己的狗,又说:“能够用比赛的方式决定真是太好了,只要我再让它往前走几步,它就可以上天堂了。不过它陪伴了我那么多年,这是我第一次可以用自己的眼睛看着它,所以我忍不住想要慢慢地走,多看它一会儿。如果可以的话,我真希望永远看着它走下去。不过天堂到了,那才是它该去的地方,请你照顾好它。”

说完这些话,主人向狗发出了前进的命令,就在狗到达终点的一刹那,主人像一片羽毛似的落向了地狱的方向。他的狗见了,急忙掉转头,追着主人狂奔。满心懊悔的天使张开翅膀追过去,想要抓住导盲犬,不过那是世界上最纯洁善良的灵魂,速度远比天堂所有的天使都快。

所以导盲犬又跟主人在一起了,即使是在地狱,导盲犬也永远守护着它的主人。

天使久久地站在那里,喃喃说道:“我一开始就错了,这两个灵魂是一体的,他们不能分开……”
　　
　　最后，我要说：这个世界上,真相只有一个,可是在不同人眼中,却会看出不同的是非曲直。这是为什么呢？其实,道理很简单,因为每个人看待事物,都不可能站在绝对客观公正的立场上,而是或多或少地戴上有色眼镜,用自己的经验、好恶和道德标准来进行评判,结果就是——我们看到了假象。
　　
"友谊的幸福之一，是知道了可以向谁倾吐秘密。"如果你收到了这封信，是因为有人在默默的祝福你，因为你也爱你身边的一些人。

永远不要嘲笑别人的梦想。不要随便给一个人定性。说话时要慢，思想时要快。

打电话的时候请你微笑，对方一定感觉得到。

　　

你看到了吗？我在默默的祝福你。*^_^*

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TEST YOUR EYES 。。。好玩‏

TEST YOUR EYES 。。。好玩‏

Can you find the B (there are 2 B's)?

能找到B吗?(这里有2个B)


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RRRRRRRRRRBRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR


Once you've found the B

Find the 1 找到B后，找1

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IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
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Once you found the 1...............



Find the 6 找到1后，找6


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once you've found the 6...



Find the N (it's hard!!) 找到6后，找N (有点难哦)

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MMMMMMMMMMMMM
MMMMMMMMMMMMM
MMMMMMMNMMMMM
MMMMMMMMMMMMM
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MMMMMMMMMMMMM
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once you've found the N...




Find the Q. 找到N后，找Q

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOQOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Enjoy your day :)

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三则感人小故事

第1个故事 小孩的心

有一位单身女子刚搬了家，她发现隔壁住了一户穷人家， 一个寡妇与两个小孩子。

有天晚上，那一带忽然停了电，那位女子只好自己点起了蜡烛。没一会儿，忽然听到有人敲门。

原来是隔壁邻居的小孩子，只见他紧张地问：「阿姨，请问你家有蜡蠋吗？」

女子心想：「他们家竟穷到连蜡烛都没有吗？千万别借他们，免得被他们依赖了！ 」

于是，对孩子吼了一声说：「没有！」

正当她准备關上门时，那穷小孩展开關爱的笑容说：「我就知道你家一定没有！」 说完，竟从怀里拿出两根蜡烛，说：「妈妈和我怕你一个人住又没有蜡蠋，所以我带两根来送你。」

此刻女子自责、感动得热泪盈眶，将那小孩子紧紧地抱在怀里。

第2个故事 纯真的心

有一个小镇很久没有下雨了，令当地农作物损失惨重，于是牧师把大家集合起来，准备在教堂里开一个祈求降雨的祷告会。

有一个小镇很久没有下雨了，令当地农作物损失惨重，于是牧师把大家集合起来，准备在教堂里开一个祈求降雨的祷告会。

人群中有一个小女孩， 因个子太小，几乎没有人看得到她，但她也来参加祈雨祷告会。

就在这时候，牧师注意到小女孩所带来的东西，激动地在台上指着她：「那位小妹妹很让我感动！」于是大家顺着他手指的方向看了过去。

牧师接着说：「我们今天来祷告祈求上帝降雨，可是整个会堂中，只有她一个人今天带着雨伞！」大家仔细一看，果然，她的座位旁挂了一把红色的小雨伞； 这时大家沉静了一下，紧接而来的，是一阵掌声与泪水交织的美景。

有时我们不得不说：小孩子其实一点都不「小」，他 （她）们其实很「大」！他（她）们的爱心很大！他 （她）们的信心很大！

第3个故事 我们只不方便三小时

那天跟老公幸运地订到了票回婆家，上车后却发现有位女士坐在我们的位子上，老公示意我先坐在她旁边的位子，却没有请这位女士让位。我仔细一看，发现她右脚有一点不方便，才了解老公为何不请她让出位子。

他就这样从嘉义一直站到台北，从头到尾都没向这位女士表示这个位子是他的，下了车之后，心疼老公的我跟他说：「让位是善行，但从嘉义到台北这么久，大可中途请她把位子还给你，换你坐一下。 」

老公却说：「人家不方便一辈子，我们就不方便这三小时而已。」听到老公这么说，我相当感动，有这么一位善良又为善不欲人知的好老公，让我觉得世界都变得温柔许多。

心念一转，世界可能从此不同，人生中，每一件事情，都有转向的能力，就看我们怎么想，怎么转。

我们不会在三分钟内成功，但也许只要花一分钟，生命从此不同。

“我们不一定会因为赚很多的钱而富有，但我们可以因付出的善念而使心中富有”

祝福亲爱的朋友们~

健康快乐~

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Be Thankful!

I AM THANKFUL:

FOR THE WIFE who says it's instant mee tonight,
BECAUSE she is home with me,
and NOT out with someone else.

FOR THE HUSBAND who is on the soda being a couch potato,
BECAUSE he is home with me,
and NOT out at the bars.

FOR THE TEENAGER who is complaining about doing dishes,
BECAUSE it means she is at home,
NOT on the streets.

FOR THE TAXES I PAY BECAUSE it means I am EMPLOYED.

FOR THE MESS TO CLEAN after a party,
BECAUSE it means I have been surrounded by FRIENDS.

FOR THE CLOTHES that fit a little too snug,
BECAUSE it means I have ENOUGH TO EAT.

FOR MY SHADOW that watches me work,
BECAUSE it means I am out in the SUNSHINE.

FOR A LAWN that needs MOWING, WINDOWS that need CLEANING,
and GUTTERS that need FIXING,
BECAUSE it means I have a HOME.

FOR ALL THE COMPLAINING I HEAR about the GOVERNMENT,
BECAUSE it means we have FREEDOM OF SPEECH.

FOR THE PARKING SPOT I FIND at the far end of the parking lot,
BECAUSE it means I AM CAPABLE OF WALKING
and I have been BLESSED eith TRANSPORTATION.

FOR MY HUGE ELECTRIC BILL, BECAUSE it means I am WARM.

FOR THE PILE OF LAUNDRY and IRONING, BECAUSE it means I have CLOTHES to wear.

FOR THE ALARM that goes off in the early morning hours,
BECAUSE it means I AM ALIVE!

Live well, Laugh often, & Love with all of your heart!

Have a nice day!!
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每个人都有一些优点 ~~

试着去欣赏它 ..... 世界会变得很美好~

每个人都有一些缺点~~~

试着去改变它 .... 世界会变得很美好 ~~

逃避它~~~ 这个世界还是不会因你而改变的 ~~~

我看后有所惊醒，因我也忘记箇中道理了。

请照主旨之顺序读 :

1.误会； 2.钉子； 3.且慢下手； 4. 宽大

1.误会 :

早年在美国阿拉斯加地方，有一对年轻人结婚，婚后生育，

他的太太因难产而死，遗下一孩子。

他忙生活，又忙于看家，因没有人帮忙看孩子，就训练一只狗，

那狗聪明听话，能照顾小孩，咬着奶瓶喂奶给孩子喝，抚养孩子。

有一天，主人出门去了，叫牠照顾孩子。

他到了别的乡村，因遇大雪，当日不能回来。

第二天才赶回家，狗立即闻声出来迎接主人。他把房门开一看，到处是血，

抬头一望，床上也是血，孩子不见了，狗在身边，满口也是血，

主人发现这种情形，以为狗性发作，把孩子吃掉了，

大怒之下，拿起刀来向着狗头一劈，把狗杀死了。

之后，忽然听到孩子的声音，又见他从床下爬了出来，

于是抱起孩子；虽然身上有血，但并未受伤。

他很奇怪，不知究竟是怎么一回事，再看看狗身，

腿上的肉没有了，旁边有一只狼，口里还咬着狗的肉；

狗救了小主人，却被主人误杀了，这真是天下最令人惊奇的误会。

注：误会的事，是人往往在不瞭解、无理智、无耐心、缺少思考、

未能多方体谅对方，反省自己，感情极为冲动的情况之下所发生。

误会一开始，即一直只想到对方的千错万错；因此，会使误会越陷越深，

弄到不可收拾的地步，人对无知的动物小狗发生误会，

尚且会有如此可怕严重的后果，这样人与人之间的误会，则其后果更是难以想像。

2.钉子 :

有一个男孩有着很坏的脾气，于是他的父亲就给了他一袋钉子；

并且告诉他，每当他发脾气的时候就钉一根钉子在后院的围篱上。

第一天，这个男孩钉下了37 根钉子。慢慢地每天钉下的数量减少了。

他发现控制自己的脾气要比钉下那些钉子来得容易些。

终于有一天这个男孩再也不会失去耐性乱发脾气，他告诉他的父亲这件事，

父亲告诉他，现在开始每当他能控制自己的脾气的时候，就拔出一根钉子。

一天天地过去了，最后男孩告诉他的父亲，他终于把所有钉子都拔出来了。

父亲握着他的手来到后院说：你做得很好，我的好孩子。

但是看看那些围篱上的洞，这些围篱将永远不能回复成从前。

你生气的时候说的话将像这些钉子一样留下疤痕。

如果你拿刀子捅别人一刀，不管你说了多少次对不起，那个伤口将永远存在。

话语的伤痛就像真实的伤痛一样令人无法承受。

注：人与人之间常常因为一些彼此无法释怀的坚持，而造成永远的伤害。

如果我们都能从自己做起，开始宽容地看待他人，

相信你（妳）一定能收到许多意想不到的结果.... 帮别人开启一扇窗，

也就是让自己看到更完整的天空 ....

3.且慢下手

大多数的同仁都很兴奋，因为单位里调来一位新主管，据说是个能人，专门被派来

整顿业务；可是日一天天过去，新主管却毫无作为，每天彬彬有礼进办公室，

便躲在里面难得出门，那些本来紧张得要死的坏份子，现在反而更猖獗了。

「他那里是个能人嘛！根本是个老好人，比以前的主管更容易唬！」

四个月过去，就在真正努力为新主管感到失望时，

新主管却发威了－－坏份子一律开革，能人则获得晋升。

下手之快，断事之准，与四月表现保守的他，简直像是全然换个人。

年终聚餐时，新主管在酒过三巡之后致词：

「相信大家对我新到任期间的表现，和后来的大刀阔斧，一定感到不解，

现在听我说个故事，各位就明白了：「我有位朋友，买了栋带着大院的房子，

他一搬进去，就将那院子全面整顿，杂草树一律清除，改种自己新买的花卉，

某日原先的屋主往访，进门大吃一惊的问：『那最名贵的牡丹哪里去了？』

我这位朋友才发现，他竟然把牡丹当草给铲了。

后来他又买了一栋房子，虽然院子更是杂乱，他却是按兵不动，

果然冬天以为是杂树的植物，春天里开了繁花；

春天以为是野草的，夏天里成了锦蔟；半年都没有动静的小树，秋天居然红了叶。

直到暮秋，它才真正认清哪些是无用的植物，

而大力铲除，并使所有珍贵的草木得以保存。」说到这儿，主管举起杯来：

「让我敬在座的每一位，因为如果这办公室是个花园，你们就都是其间的珍木，

珍木不可能一年到头开花结果，只有经过长期的观察才认得出啊！

4.宽大 :

这是一个甫自越战归来的士兵的故事。

他从旧金山打电话给他的父母，告诉他们：「爸妈，我回来了，可是我有个不情之请。

我想带一个朋友同我一起回家。」「当然好啊！」他们回答「我们会很高兴见到的。」

不过儿子又继续下去「可是有件事我想先告诉你们，他在越战里受了重伤，

少了一条胳臂和一只脚，他现在走投无路，我想请他回来和我们一起生活。」

「儿子，我很遗撼，不过或许我们可以帮他找个安身之处。」

父亲又接着说「儿子，你不知道自己在说些什么。

像他这样残障的人会对我们的生活造成很大的负担。

我们还有自己的生活要过，不能就让他这样破坏了。

我建议你先回家然后忘了他，他会找到自己的一片天空的。」

就在此时却l挂上了电话，他的父母再也没有他的消息了。

几天后，这对父母接到了来自旧金山警局的电话，

告诉他们亲爱的儿子已经坠楼身亡了。警方相信这只是单纯的自杀案件。

于是他们伤心欲绝地飞往旧金山，并在警方带领之下到停尸间去辨认儿子的遗体。

那的确是他们的儿子没错，但惊讶的是儿子居然，只有一条胳臂和一条腿。

故事中的父母就和我们大多数人一样。

要去喜爱面貌姣好或谈吐风趣的人很容易，

但是要喜欢那些造成我们不便和不快的人却太难了。

我们总是宁愿和那些不如我们健康，美丽或聪明的人保持距离。

然而有些人却不会对我们如此残酷。

他们会无怨无悔地爱我们，不论我们多么糟总是愿意接纳我们。

今晚在你入睡之前，请试着去接纳他人，

不论他们是怎么样的人；请用心去了解那些不同于我们的人。

每个人的心里都藏着一种神奇的东西称为「友情」，

你不知道它究竟是如何发生何时发生，但你却知道它总会带给我们特殊的礼物。

朋友就像是稀奇的宝物。他们带来欢笑，激励我们成功。

他们倾听我们内心的话，与我们分享每一句赞美。

他们的心房永远为我们而敞开。现在就告诉你的朋友你有多在乎他们。

把这篇文章转寄给所有你认为是朋友的人。

试想：朋友，您一路看下来之后；一定有很深的感触吧。

那么，在对别人有所决定与判断之前，首先，请想想这是否是一个「误会」，

然后，请考虑您是否一定要钉下这个「 钉子」，

如果可以的话，请「且慢下手 」。

因为，当您对别人「宽大」之时，即是对您自己宽大。

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