Monday, December 28, 2009

Change Your Thinking

It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking..

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.


One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.

His bed was next to the room's only window.


The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end.


They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation..


Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pa ss the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.

Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.


As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.


Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.


Days, weeks and months passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.


As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.

He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.

It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.


The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'


Epilogue:

There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.

Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.

If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that mo ney can't buy.



'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present.'

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Monday, December 21, 2009

买东西,为什么不说买南北

南宋理学大家朱熹

在未出仕前,家乡有叫盛温和的好友,此人亦是博学多才的人,一天两人相遇于巷子内,盛手中拿着一个竹篮子,朱熹问他:「你去那里?」

盛回答说:「我要去买点东西。」

朱熹是以穷理致知研究学问的人,他听盛的话,很好奇,随即问道:「你说买东西, 为什么不说买南北呢?」

盛温和反问朱熹:「你知什么是五行吗?」

朱熹答:「我当然知道,不就是金、木、水、火、土吗?」

盛说:「不错,你知道了就好办,现在我说给

你听,东方属木,西方属金,南方属火,北方属水,中间属土。我的篮子是竹做的,盛火会烧掉,装水会漏光,只能装木和金,更不会盛土,所以叫买东西,不说买南北呀。」

朱熹听后唉了一声说:「原来是这样!」

原来买东西这个名词还有这样一个典故,未收到这篇故事前,还真是搞不懂,买东西的由来,为何会说买东西而不说买南北,看了这篇故事后才知道原来还有这样一段插曲呢,古人的智慧真是蕴藏在我们的生活的点点滴滴中。

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Monday, December 14, 2009

Lawyers... Oh Lawyers

A man went to his
lawyer and told him "My neighbor owes me $500.00 and he
doesn't want to pay up. What should I do???


"Do you have any proof ?", asked the
lawyer.

"Nope," replied the man.


"Okay, then write him a letter asking him for the
$1,000.00 he owed you," said the lawyer.

"But it's only $500.00!", replied the
man.


"Precisely, that's what he will reply and we will
have the proof we need," said the
lawyer.



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The professor of a contract law class asked one of his
better students, "If you were to give someone an
orange, how would you go about it?".


The student replied, "Here's an
orange."

The professor was outraged. "No! No! Think like a
lawyer!"


The student then replied, "Okay. I'd tell him.....
I hereby give and convey to you all and
singular, my estate and interests, rights, claim, title,
claim and advantages of and in, said orange, together with
all its rind, juice, pulp, and seeds, and all rights and
advantages with full power to bite, cut, freeze and
otherwise eat, the same, or give

the same away with and without the pulp, juice, rind and
seeds, anything herein before or hereinafter or in any
deed, or deeds, instruments of whatever nature or kind
whatsoever to the contrary in anywise notwithstanding.


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A dog ran into a butcher shop and grabbed a roast off the
counter.

Fortunately, the butcher recognised the dog as belonging to
a neighbour of his. The neighbour happened to be a
lawyer.


Incensed at the theft, the butcher called up his neighbour
and
said.....
Hey, if your dog stole a roast from my butcher shop, would
you be liable for the cost of the meat???


The lawyer replied..... Of course, how much was the
roast??? "$7.98."

A few days later the butcher received a check in the mail
for $7.98.


Attached to it was an invoice that read:-

Legal Consultation Service..... $150.00



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The lawyer's son wanted to follow in his father's
footsteps so he went to law school. He graduated with an
honours and then went home to join his father's
firm.


At the end of his first day at work he rushed into his
father's office, and said.....


Father, father, in one day I broke the accident case that
you've been working on for ten years!!!

His father responded..... You idiot, we lived on the
funding of that case for ten years!!!


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Have a great day!
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Friday, December 4, 2009

爱的感觉

爱的感觉,总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜, 总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担, 你终於不再孤单了,至少有一个人想著你、恋著你, 不论做什么事情, 只要能一起,就是好的, 但是慢慢的,随著彼此的认识愈深, 你开始发现了对方的缺点, 於是问题一个接著一个发生, 你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃避,

有人说爱情就像在捡石头, 总想捡到一个适合自己的, 但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?

*她适合你,那你又适合她吗? 其实,爱情就像磨石子一样, 或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意, 但是记住人是有弹性的, 很多事情是可以改变的, 只要你有心、有勇气, 与其到处去捡未知的石头, 还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨,你开始磨了吗?

很多人以为是因为感情淡了, 所以人才会变得懒惰。 错! 其实是人先被惰性征服, 所以感情才会变淡的。 *在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好, 这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前,当我老婆 还是我的女朋友的时候,她说要吃十只虾,我就剥二十只给她! 现在,如果她要我帮她剥虾壳,开玩笑!我 连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了,还剥虾壳咧!

*听到了吗?明白了吗? 难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱,却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。 因为,婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。 如果每个人都 懒得讲话、 懒得倾听、 懒得制造惊喜、 懒得温柔体贴, 那么夫妻或是情人之间, 又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢? 所以请记住: 有活力的爱情, 是需要适度殷勤灌溉的, 谈恋爱,更是不可以偷懒的喔!

*有一对情侣,相约下班後去用餐、逛街,可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了, 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟 到了30多分钟, 他的男朋友很不高兴的说: 你每次都这样,现在我甚么心情也没了, 我以後再也不会等 你了! 刹那间,女孩终於决堤崩溃了, 她心里在想:或许,他们再也没有未来了

*同样的在同一个地点,另一对情侣也面临同样的处境; 女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头,他的男朋友 说:我想你一定忙坏了吧! 接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水,并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上, 此刻,女孩流泪 , 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。 你体会到了吗? *其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间! 爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时, 很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了! 懂了吗? 当有个人爱上你,而你也觉得他不错。 那并不代表你会选择他。

*我们总说:我要找一个你很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。 但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候, 你可能无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。

*没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。 可是後来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。 假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢? 其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。 或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣, 但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,只是你没发觉而已呢? 所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧! 他或许已经等你很久喽!

*当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。 所有的期待和希望都只有七八分;剩下两三分用来爱自己。 如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来, 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

*所以请记住, 喝酒不要超过六分醉, 吃饭不要超过七分饱, 爱一个人不要超过八分

*那天朋友问我:到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢? 我笑著跟他说:其实每个人的爱情观都不一样,说对了叫开导,但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了!

*如果你也正在为爱迷惘,或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示: 爱一个人,要了解,也要开解; 要道歉,也要道谢; 要认错,也要改错; 要体贴,也要体谅; 是接受,而不是忍受; 是宽容,而不是纵容; 是支持,而不是支配; 是慰问,而不是质问; 是倾诉,而不是控诉; 是难忘,而不是遗忘; 是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代; 是为对方默默祈求, 而不是向对方诸多要求; 可以浪漫,但不要浪费; 可以随时牵手,但不要随便分手。 这封信打动了我,因为它说:'收到了这封信,是因为有人在默默的祝福你,因为你也爱你身边的一些人'。带 着爱的,一切将如愿以偿

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