第一句
如果我们之间有1000步的距离
你只要跨出第1步
我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步
第二句
通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人
才是真正爱你的人
第三句
付出真心 才会得到真心
却也可能伤得彻底
保持距离 就能保护自己
却也注定永远寂寞
第四句
有时候 不是对方不在乎你
而是你把对方看得太重
第五句
朋友就是把你看透了 还能喜欢你的人
第六句
就算是believe 中间也藏了一个lie
第七句
真正的好朋友
并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题
而是在一起 就算不说话
也不会感到尴尬
第八句
没有一百分的另一半
只有五十分的两个人
第九句
为你的难过而快乐的 是敌人
为你的快乐而快乐的 是朋友
为你的难过而难过的
就是那些 该放进心里的人
第十句
冷漠 有时候并不是无情
只是一种避免被伤害的工具
ps:本人觉得这十句话很有深度，很有意思。认真去思考，你会得到意想不到的收获。请不要吝啬，转发出去跟你身边的好友分享~大家友谊万岁~谢谢^^
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A Story to live by
There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, ‘If I could only see the world, I will marry you.’
有一位瞎女很讨厌自己因为眼睛瞎了。她也讨厌每个人，唯一不讨厌的是她的男朋友，因为他都常守在她身旁。于是她对她的男朋友说：「如果能让我看到这个世界，我愿意嫁给你！」
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.
有一天，有人捐了一对眼精给她。当纱布解开时，她能够看到一切，包括她的男朋友。
He asked her, ‘Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?’ The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn’t expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.
男朋友问她：「现在你可以看到这世界，你愿意嫁给我吗？」那女孩看了男朋友是个瞎子，他那对盖上眼皮的眼睛吓到了她，这是她无法想像。她想：要我嫁给他而一生对着他这个样子，我无法接受。
Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: ‘Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.’
于是，她的男朋友很伤心的离开她，几天后写了字条给她：「亲爱的，请你好好照顾你的眼睛，因为它不是属于你的之前，它是属于我的。」
This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painfulsituations.
这也是人的脑会如何做当情况有所变动。只有少许人会记得他或她之前的生活及谁会在身旁当他或她处在困境的时候
Life Is a Gift
生命是一份礼物
Today before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can’t speak.
今天，当你要讲一句不善之言－－请想想那些无法讲话的人
Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
当你要埋怨食物的味道时－－请想想那些没有食物吃的人
Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who’s crying out to GOD for a companion.
当你要埋怨你的先生或太太时－－请想想那些在向上天哭诉要一个伴侣的人
Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who died too early on this earth.
今天，当你要埋怨生活时－－请想想那些太早离开人世间的人
Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren…
当你要埋怨小孩时－－请想想那些渴望小孩而无能生育的人
Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn’t clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.
当你要争论没有人清理屋子时－－请想想那些住在街边的人
Before whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
当你在哀诉驾驶的路程－－请想想那些同样的路程以代步的人
And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.
当你很疲备而埋怨工作时－－请想想那些无工作，残疾的，及那些多么希望拥有你这份工作的人
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another – Remember that not one of us is without sin.
当你想要指着人或互相谴责时－－请记得没有一个人是无罪
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and think: you’re alive and still around.
当压抑的念头让你无法振作时－－请你笑一笑想想：你还活着存在世间！
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British English vs. Malaysian English
Who says our English is teruk? Just read below - Ours is simple, short, concise, straight-to-the-point, effective etc.
WHEN GIVING A CUSTOMER BAD NEWS
Britons: I’m sorry, sir, but we don’t seem to have the sweater you want in your size, but if you give me a moment, I can call the other outlets for you.
Malaysians: No stock.
RETURNING A CALLBritons: Hello, this is John Smith. Did anyone call for me a few moments ago?
Malaysians: Hello, who call?
ASKING SOMEONE TO MAKE WAYBritons: Excuse me, I would like to get by. Would you please make way?
Malaysians: S-kew me.
WHEN SOMEONE OFFERS TO PAY
Britons: Hey! Put your wallet away, this drink is on me.
Malaysians: No need lah.
WHEN ASKING FOR PERMISSIONBritons: Excuse me, but do you think it would be possible for me to enter through this door?
Malaysians: (pointing at the door) Can ah?
WHEN ENTERTAINING
Britons: Please make yourself right at home.
Malaysians: No need shy shy one lah!
WHEN DOUBTING SOMEONEBritons: I don’t recall you giving me the money.
Malaysians: Where got?
WHEN DECLINING AN OFFERBritons: I would prefer not to do that, if you don’t mind.
Malaysians: Don’t want lah.
IN DISAGREEING ON A TOPIC OF DISCUSSIONBritons: Err…Tom, I have to stop you there. I understand where you’re coming from, but I really have to disagree with what you said about the issue.
Malaysians: You mad ah?
WHEN ASKING SOMEONE TO LOWER THEIR VOICE.
Britons: Excuse me, but could you please lower your voice? I’m trying to concentrate over here.
Malaysians: Shut up lah!
WHEN ASKING SOMEONE IF HE/SHE KNOWS YOU..
Britons: Excuse me, but I noticed you staring at me for sometime. Do I know you?
Malaysians: See what, see what?
WHEN ASSESSING A TIGHT SITUATION.
Britons: We seem to be in a bit of a predicament at the moment..
Malaysians: Die lah!!
WHEN TRYING TO FIND OUT WHAT HAD HAPPENED
Britons: Will someone tell me what has just happened?
Malaysians: What happened ah? Why like that one lah?
WHEN SOMEONE DID SOMETHING WRONG
Britons: This isn’t the way to do it. Here, let me show you.
Malaysians: Like that also don’t know how to do!
WHEN ONE IS ANGRY
Britons: Would you mind not disturbing me?
Malaysians: Celaka you!
So which would you prefer? Send this to your Malaysian friends and let them have a laugh too. Good day!
Forwarded by Janice
遗忘
有时候，遗忘，是令人快乐的。什么时候？当然是有人伤了你心的时候。存心伤你心的那人，固然是故意和你过不去；但是，被伤了心而一直耿耿于怀的你，却是自己和自己过不去了。
想想看，他都已经伤害了你，难道你还要以念念不忘的方式来凸显他对你的重要性吗？所以，记性不太好的人，通常会是比较快乐的人，也是比较不容易被别人击倒的人。
无常
你总是认为快乐的时光里藏着险恶，你总是怀疑有什么不幸的事件在你的视线之外悄悄進行，准备在你转弯的时候，迎面给你一个猝不及防又痛彻心扉的撞击。
生命中确实充满了意外，灾难随时都可能发生；但与其忧愁终日，战战兢兢地预支苦痛，不如把意外视为平常，如此，你将渐渐了解生命的无常。
无常即平常，所以，别再忧心忡忡地预支苦痛，快乐的时候就好好享受快乐，等到悲伤真正来临时，再认真感受悲伤。
纯白
那个女孩拒绝穿纯白的衣裳，「因为我担心沾上污点，」她说，「白色最惹脏了，穿着不再洁白无暇的纯白衣裳，我会觉得自己整个人也像个污点。」
可以想像的是，为了避免恋爱失败，她很可能拒绝恋爱；为了避免婚姻失败，她也可能拒绝婚姻。
于是你知道，追求完美或许是好的，但坚持完美可就太累人了。
容忍生活中不完美的污点，才能更接近真正的平静自在。人生本应有黑有白有七彩，不该毁在一件虚构的纯白衣裳上。
镜子
你和镜子是朋友，还是敌人？你面对自己，是觉得可爱，还是可憎？
请你拿着一面镜子，看着里面的那张脸，并对他露出你最好的笑容，然后告诉他：亲爱的，你真美，别担心，今天一切都会很顺利的。
真的，只要真心喜欢自己，做任何事都不会难。
泡泡
晴天，适合吹泡泡。阳光下，一颗又一颗晶莹剔透的泡泡，飞舞在轻风里，反映着这个世界的琉璃光影，像一个又一个的美梦，或许曾经短暂实现，但倏忽即逝。世事不也是如此？
许多美丽的光影来来去去，而你事后回顾，往往不能肯定那些人那些事是否真的存在过？但肯定了又如何？
凡存在过的，必将消失。所以，看待万事万物，无需执着，别太在意。只要记得吹泡泡的快乐心情。
影子
小时候，你一定玩过踩影子的游戏吧？现在的你，是不是总追逐着天空中的云烟，却忘了低头看看自己的影子？
如果今天晚上有月光，那么请你陪你的影子走一段路，和它说些悄悄话。
这个世界不明白你的，它都能明白；别人不了解你的，它都能了解。其实它一直在这里，从来没离开，
只要你需要，它永远都存在。
宁静
在人前，你谈笑自若，离开人群之后，你却常常不知何去何从。可以和一大群人夥颐，但不知如何与自己独处－－和许多人一样，你只觉得对自己没有办法。
在接受别人的进驻之前，先在心里为自己保留一个宁静的角落吧，除了自己，任何人都禁止进入。
有了这个私密的宁静角落，你才可以无牵无挂地离去，无沾无滞地回来。
玻璃
你的心上积压着心事，一如积压着灰尘。怎么办？你说，它们如影随形，挥之不去。
那么，就找一块抹布，把房子里的每一块玻璃都擦拭得乾干净净，让自己的视野望得更远，看得更透明。
试试看，或许在整理外在的环境时，你同时也处理了内在的秩序。
列车
你的人生是一列火车，总是有人上车，有人下车。
朋友或仇人、情人或家人，都是列车上的乘客，只是
有人和你同车的时间长些，有人的时间短些。
每个人在上车之前，车票都先盖了戳记，站程皆已注定，时间到了就上车，时间到了就下车，不容讨价还价。
而你，也是别人人生列车上的乘客，请把握同车的时间，以免分离时徒留遗憾。还有，下车时，别忘了随身的行李。
自由
你任你心爱的那人去快意飞翔，你说爱一个人就是要让他自由。
然而你又担心，他会平安顺利吗？他会幸福快乐吗？
他会时时刻刻想念着你，一如你时时刻刻想念着他吗？
你给了他行动上的自由，却因悬念而把自己层层困绑，这样的爱反倒让你自己不自由了。
而他感觉到你的不放心，又怎么会有真正的自由？
所以，亲爱的，自由其实不只是口头上的允诺，更是由衷地信任对方。唯有信任，才能真正解开彼此缠缚的翅膀。
幻觉
告诉你一个秘密──其实，所有的痛觉，都是幻觉。
当我们在下意识里允许了痛苦的存在，它才会存在，
你不理会痛苦时，它就被打败。
如果占据你的是疼痛的感觉，眼泪就来了，但如果你认定这种感觉只是幻觉，那么它将无法再左右你的情绪。
牙疼的时候是这样，失恋的时候，也是这样。
罈子
有桩心事笼罩在你的眉间，郁积成一朵乌云。在你的心还没下雨之前，亲爱的，把它说出来吧。倾诉过后，你会觉得舒坦许多。
藏着心事，就像藏着一个罈子，你用咸咸的泪水闷渍它，渍成一罈又酸又苦的腌菜；当你独自啃噬着它，酸液在你的口腔里四溅，又让你忍不住流下咸咸的泪水。
热茶
那杯茶閒置太久，已经冷了。冷茶没了香味，却多了一股铁锈般的涩味，你是不爱喝的，因为喝下去没有乐趣。
同样的，当一颗心被閒置太久，也会逐渐变得冰冷。
冰泠的心很难再加温，就算千方百计送进微波炉去调整温度，这颗冷过复热的心，也不再是从前那一颗了。
一段已经冷却的关系可以挽回吗？不，没有什么能挽回的，你只能重新开始。
即使是面对同一个人，也是用一种新的态度去建立新的关系。
过去心已不可得。就像倒掉那杯冷茶，再泡一杯热的。这罈心事对于你的人生来说，真是一点也不下饭啊。
怀人
有许多事，在你还不懂得珍惜之前已成旧事；有许多人，在你还来不及用心之前已成旧人。
遗憾的感觉一再发生，但过后再追悔「早知道如何如何，那时候就应该如何如何」是没有用的，「那时候」已经过去了，你怀想的那人也已经走过了你的生命。
「它来如花开，去如花萎，无常迅速，逝若光影。」
人与人的交会难以预测长短，但时光匆促是必然。
清明节的今天，适合省思，也适合怀人，并且，就从现在开始，善待你周围的每一个人。
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Truly inspirational....
Jessica Cox, 25, a girl born without arms, stands inside an aircraft. The girl from
Jessica Cox of Tucson was born without arms, but that has only stopped her from doing one thing: using the word "can't."
Her latest flight into the seemingly impossible is becoming the first pilot licensed to fly using only her feet.
With one foot manning the controls and the other delicately guiding the steering column, Cox, 25, soared to achieve a Sport Pilot certificate. Her certificate qualifies her to fly a light-sport aircraft to altitudes of 10,000 feet.
"She's a good pilot. She's rock solid," said Parrish Traweek, 42, the flying instructor at San Manuel's
Parrish Traweek runs PC Aircraft Maintenance and Flight Services and has trained many pilots, some of whom didn't come close to Cox's abilities.
"When she came up here driving a car," Traweek recalled, "I knew she'd have no problem flying a plane."
Doctors never learned why she was born without arms, but she figured out early on that she didn't want to use prosthetic devices.
So, my friends if u have better condition than her, don’t say you “can’t” face the problem
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It's long but very informative
We all think eating fruits means just buying fruits, cutting it and just popping it into our mouths. It's not as easy as you think. It's important to know how and when to eat.
What is the correct way of eating fruits?
IT MEANS NOT EATING FRUITS AFTER YOUR MEALS! FRUITS SHOULD BE EATEN ON AN EMPTY STOMACH.
If you eat fruit like that, it will play a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.
FRUIT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FOOD. Let's say you eat two slices of bread and then a slice of fruit. The slice of fruit is ready to go straight through the stomach into the intestines, but it is prevented from doing so.
In the meantime the whole meal rots and ferments and turns to acid. The minute the fruit comes into contact with the food in the stomach and digestive juices, the entire mass of food begins to spoil.
So please eat your fruits on an empty stomach or before your meals! You have heard people complaining - every time I eat watermelon I burp, when I eat durian my stomach bloats up, when I eat a banana I feel like running to the toilet etc - actually all this will not arise if you eat the fruit on an empty stomach. The fruit mixes with the putrefying other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat!
Graying hair, balding, nervous outburst, and dark circles under the eyes all these will not happen if you take fruits on an empty stomach.
There is no such thing as some fruits, like orange and lemon are acidic, because all fruits become alkaline in our body, according to Dr. Herbert Shelton who did research on this matter. If you have mastered the correct way of eating fruits, you have the Secret of beauty, longevity, health, energy, happiness and normal weight.
When you need to drink fruit juice - drink only fresh fruit juice, NOT from the cans. Don't even drink juice that has been heated up. Don't eat cooked fruits because you don't get the nutrients at all. You only get to taste. Cooking destroys all the vitamins.
But eating a whole fruit is better than drinking the juice. If you should drink the juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must let it mix with your saliva before swallowing it. You can go on a 3-day fruit fast to cleanse your body. Just eat fruits and drink fruit juice throughout the 3 days and you will be surprised when your friends tell you how radiant you look!
KIWI: Tiny but mighty. This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, vitamin E & fiber. Its vitamin C content is twice that of an orange.
APPLE: An apple a day keeps the doctor away? Although an apple has a low vitamin C content, it has antioxidants & flavonoids which enhances the activity of vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart attack & stroke.
STRAWBERRY: Protective Fruit. Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits & protect the body from cancer-causing, blood vessel-clogging free radicals.
WATERMELON: Coolest thirst quencher. Composed of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione, which helps boost our immune system. They are also a key source of lycopene - the cancer fighting oxidant. Other nutrients found in watermelon are vitamin C & Potassium.
GUAVA & PAPAYA: Top awards for vitamin C. They are the clear winners for their high vitamin C content. Guava is also rich in fiber, which helps prevent constipation. Papaya is rich in carotene; this is good for your eyes.
Drinking Cold water after a meal = Cancer! Can you believe this? For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup,warm water or warm beer after a meal.
A serious note about heart attacks HEART ATTACK PROCEDURE': (THIS IS NOT A JOKE!) Women should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting. Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line.. You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack . Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms.. Sixty percent of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know the better chance we could survive...
A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this mail sends it to 10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life.
Read this...It could save your life!!
Forwarded by Irene
科学家经常强调一句话：「人要注意三个半分钟，三个半小时。」
『三个半分钟』不花一分钱，可以少死多少人啊！
很多人白天好好的，说晚上死了，有人说，昨天我还见过他，怎么就死了呢？原因是，他夜晚下床上厕所太快了，突然一起床，脑缺血。
那么科学家怎么提出三个半分钟呢？
因为我们在遥控心电图监测时，发现好多人白天心电图正常，突然晚上老是心肌缺血，提前收缩，是什么道理呢？
因为，他突然一起床，一下子血压低了，脑缺血心脏停跳了。
科学家就提出了三个半分钟：
1. 醒过来不要马上起床，在床上躺半分钟；
2. 坐起来后又坐半分钟；
3. 两条腿垂在床沿又等半分钟。
经过这三个半分钟，不花一分钱，脑不会缺血，心脏不会骤停，减少了很多不必要的瘁死（突然死亡），不必要的心肌梗塞，不必要的脑中风。
有一次我讲完课，有位老人大哭，我说：『你哭什么呢？』他哭得非常伤心地说：『唉！我就是两年前 夜晚上厕所，上得快了一点、上得猛了一点，头晕，结果呢，第二天半身不遂，整整在床上躺了八个月，背上长起了褥疮。我早听这节课，就不致于半身不遂了，早 知道三个半分钟，我哪至于受八个月的苦。」
三个半小时，就是 ：
1.早上起来运动半个小时，打打太极拳、跑跑步，但不超过三公里，或者進行其他运动，但要因人而异，运动需适量。
2.中午睡半小时，这是人生物钟需要，中午睡上半小时，下午上班，精力特别充沛。老年人更需要补充睡眠。因晚上老人睡得早，起得早，中午非常需要休息。
3.晚上6至7时 慢步行走半小时，可减少心肌梗塞，高血压发病率。
40岁以上的都该看看!!
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是一篇很值得分享的故事
我 的妻子因为意外事故离开我身边已经四年了，我想，妻子留下不会做任何家事的我和孩子，她的心有何等难过呢？我也因为无法兼顾父母双亲的角色而感到挫折。有 一天我为了出差，清晨赶出门，无法将孩子打点好就得离开家，正巧前一天有剩下的饭，我热了蒸蛋，向还没有睡醒的孩子交代一声，就出门去了。
为 了照顾好孩子饮食三餐的事，我也无力把自己的工作做好。有一天晚上回到家，我只是很简短地和孩子打个招呼，就因为身体疲累，不想吃晚餐，脱掉西装之后就直 接往床上躺下。就在那个时候，砰的一声，红色的汤汁跟泡面瞬时弄脏了床单和被单，原来有碗泡面在棉被里！这小子真是的，说时迟那时快，我即时拿起一个衣 架，跑出去，往正玩着玩具的儿子的屁股就打，因为我实在是太生气了，所以不停地打他。但就在这个时候，他边啜泣边说了一段话，使我停了下来。
儿 子告诉我说：「饭锅里的饭早上已经吃完了，晚餐在幼稚园吃了，但是到了晚上，爸爸还不回来，我就在橱柜的抽屉里找到了泡面。可是我想到爸爸说不能乱动瓦斯 炉，所以我就打开洗澡的水龙头，用热水泡了泡面，一个自己吃，另一个想留给爸爸吃。因为怕泡面凉掉，所以我就把它放在棉被里，等你回来。可是因为我正在玩 向朋友借来的玩具，所以忘了跟爸爸讲。」
我 不想让儿子看到我在流泪，所以冲到洗手间，将水龙头打开，大声地哭。过了一阵子之后，我打起精神来，一面哄着儿子，一面也在他屁股上擦药，让他上床睡觉。 当我清理好泡面弄脏的床单和棉被后，打开儿子的房门一看，发现他仍旧发出哭泣声，手里还拿着妈妈的照片。我把头靠在房门站了许久，看着这一幕。
自从在一年前发生这件事之后，我为了扮演好妈妈的角色，更加用心地去照顾他。现在儿子快七岁了，不久后就要从幼稚园毕业，进入国小读书。庆幸的是，儿子在这段时间毫无阴影，很开朗地成长。
就在不久前，我再一次打孩子，因为幼稚园来电话说，儿子没有去学校，我心里觉得很不安，所以早退回家，在整个社区里大声地喊他的名字，却是遍寻不着。后来在文具店的门?f，看见他站在电玩的前面，于是我很生气，又开始一直打他。儿子并没有说出任何的解释，只说了声对不起。后来我才知道，原来刚好是幼稚园要邀请妈妈去看才艺表演的日子。
发生这些事的几天后，儿子回家说，他在幼稚园里学了写字，从此他经常關在自己的房间里不出来，很认真地写字。我看到儿子这个样子，想到妻子在天国也一定会因为看到他这样而微笑，我就无法忍住泪水。
时 间很快，又过了一年，到了冬天，街头上都在播放着圣诞节的歌曲，我的儿子却又闯了一个祸。我正要下班的时候，接到一通社区邮局的电话，说我儿子把一困没有 写地址的信，恶作剧地放在邮筒里。每年到了年底，正是邮局最忙碌的时候，所以这对他们造成很大的困扰。虽然我已决定不再打孩子，但在急忙赶回家后，叫了儿 子来，我又忍不住痛打他一顿。儿子这一次只是说他做错了，却没有讲出任何理由。我把他推到一个角落，不管了，自个儿跑到邮局领回那一困恶作剧的信。我把信 丢到他眼前说：「你为什么要这样恶作剧？」儿子哭着回答说：「这些信是我要寄给妈妈的。」
当 时我的眼眶红了起来，心里很激动，但是因为在儿子面前，所以我尽量隐忍住没有表现出来。我接着问他：「那么，为什么一次寄这么多信呢？」儿子回答说：「以 前我要把信投进去的时候，因为个儿太矮，所以没办法投入，但是最近我再去邮筒时，已经搆得到了，所以我就把以前没有寄的，一次全部都投进入了。」
我听了以后，心中一片茫然，不知道该对孩子说什么话。过了不久以后，我就跟他
说：「妈妈现在在天上，以后你写完信，把信烧了，就能送到天国去。」等孩子睡着之后，我到外面烧了那些信。我很好奇到底孩子想跟妈妈说些什么，所以读了其中的几封信。
而当中有一封信搅动了我的心。
亲爱的妈妈：
我 很想念你！妈妈，今天在幼稚园有才艺表演，但是因为我没有妈妈，所以没有去参加，我也没有告诉爸爸，怕爸爸会想念妈妈。爸爸到处去找我，但我为了让爸爸看 到我很开心的样子，所以故意坐在电动玩具面前，虽然爸爸骂我，但是我到最后也没有告诉他原因。妈妈，我每天都看到爸爸因为想念妈妈而哭泣，我想爸爸也跟我 一样，很想念妈妈吧！但是，妈，我现在已经记不清楚你的脸。妈妈，请你让我在梦中，再一次能够看到你的脸，好吗？听说把想念的人的照片放在怀里睡觉，就会 梦到那个人。可是，妈妈，为什么你没有出现在我的梦里呢？」
读完这封信以后，我就开始嚎啕大哭。到底什么时候，我才能填补妻子的空位呢？
给已经结婚的女同事：
不要加太多班，工作做不完，一定是公司的某些地方出问题了，一定要将问题反应给妳的老板，一直加班也不见的有用的，请务必要照顾自己的身体，才可以好好疼惜妳的小宝贝。
给已经结婚的男同事：
不要喝太多酒，不要抽太多烟，请问我们的生意，我们的客户，有比我们的身体重要吗？
一定要想一想，有没有办法做到客人非我们不行，我们的差异化在哪里，我们是否真的懂客人的心，这比拼命喝酒，还重要，请务必要照顾自己的身体，才可以好好疼惜妳的小宝贝和你的爱人。
给还没有结婚的男同事和女同事：
美其实是从爱自己的身体开始 –（蒋勋，身体美学）。
无入而不自得 — （孔子）。
妳/你们一定要很自在，工作才能做的好，如果工作让你/妳们的心情做的很辛苦，代表的是我们的公司不够聪明，那也是公司什么地方不对了，要勇敢的说出来，不要让不聪明的工作与老板，伤害了妳/你们的身体。
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